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13 Ways To Achieve Strong Mental Health That Will Reflect In Your Performance and Change Your Outlook Towards Your Work

For all the time that executives all around the world spend, concerned about physical strength and health, when it comes down to it, mental strength can mean even more than has been realised. Particularly for entrepreneurs, numerous articles talk about critical characteristics of mental strength—tenacity, grit, and optimism.

However, we can also take the liberty to define mental strength by identifying the things mentally strong individuals DON’T DO. A list has been compiled of all the factors that need to be kept in mind while keeping one’s mental well-being in check.


Do Not Waste Time Feeling Sorry or Pitiful for Oneself.

You never see mentally strong people feeling pity for their circumstances or dwelling on the way they’ve been mistreated. They have learned to take accountability for their actions and outcomes, and they have an understanding of the fact that most times life is not fair. They are able to emerge from testing circumstances with self-awareness and gratitude for the lessons learned. When a situation turns out badly, they respond with phrases such as “Oh, well.” Or perhaps simply, “Next!”

Stop Giving Away Your Power.

Mentally strong people avoid giving others the power to make them feel inferior or bad. They understand they are in control of their actions and emotions and take up the charge to coordinate their thoughts and actions. They know their strength is in their ability to manage the way they respond.

Never Shy Away from Change.

Mentally strong people embrace change and they welcome it. Their biggest “fear,” if they have one, is not of the unknown, but of becoming complacent and stagnant. An environment of change and even uncertainty can energize a mentally strong person and bring out their best, we should analyse changes and incorporate them.

Refrain from Wasting Energy on Things You Can’t Control.

Mentally strong people don’t complain (much) about bad traffic, lost luggage, or especially about other people, as they recognize that all of these factors are generally beyond their control. In a bad situation, they recognize that the one thing they can always control is their own response and attitude, and they use these attributes well.

Don’t Worry About Pleasing Others.

Know any people pleasers? Or, conversely, people who go out of their way to dis-please others as a way of reinforcing an image of strength? Neither position is a good one. A mentally strong person strives to be kind and fair and to please others where appropriate, but is unafraid to speak up. They are able to withstand the possibility that someone will get upset and will navigate the situation, wherever possible, with grace.

Take Calculated Risks.

A mentally strong person is willing to take calculated risks. This is a different thing entirely than jumping headlong into foolish risks. But with mental strength, an individual can weigh the risks and benefits thoroughly, and will fully assess the potential downsides and even the worst-case scenarios before they take action.

Stop Dwelling on the Past.

There is strength in acknowledging the past and especially in acknowledging the things learned from past experiences—but a mentally strong person is able to avoid miring their mental energy in past disappointments or in fantasies of the “glory days” gone by. They invest the majority of their energy in creating an optimal present and future.

Don’t Make the Same Mistakes Over and Over.

We all know the definition of insanity, right? It’s when we take the same actions again and again while hoping for a different and better outcome than we’ve gotten before. A mentally strong person accepts full responsibility for past behavior and is willing to learn from mistakes. Research shows that the ability to be self-reflective in an accurate and productive way is one of the greatest strengths of spectacularly successful executives and entrepreneurs.

Don’t Resent Other People’s Success.

It takes strength of character to feel genuine joy and excitement for other people’s success. Mentally strong people have this ability. They don’t become jealous or resentful when others succeed (although they may take close notes on what the individual did well). They are willing to work hard for their own chances at success, without relying on shortcuts.

Take Failure in a Positive Manner.

Every failure is a chance to improve. Even the greatest entrepreneurs are willing to admit that their early efforts invariably brought many failures. Mentally strong people are willing to fail again and again, if necessary, as long as the learning experience from every “failure” can bring them closer to their ultimate goals.

Never Fear Alone Time.

Mentally strong people enjoy and even treasure the time they spend alone. They use their downtime to reflect, to plan, and to be productive. Most importantly, they don’t depend on others to shore up their happiness and moods. They can be happy with others, and they can also be happy alone.

Do Not Feel that the World Owes You Anything.

Particularly in the current economy, executives and employees at every level are gaining the realization that the world does not owe them a salary, a benefits package and a comfortable life, regardless of their preparation and schooling. Mentally strong people enter the world prepared to work and succeed on their merits, at every stage of the game.

Stop Expecting Immediate Results.

Whether it’s a workout plan, a nutritional regimen, or starting a business, mentally strong people are “in it for the long haul”. They know better than to expect immediate results. They apply their energy and time in measured doses and they celebrate each milestone and increment of success on the way. They have “staying power.” And they understand that genuine changes take time. Do you have mental strength? Are there elements on this list you need more of? With thanks to Amy Morin, I would like to reinforce my own abilities further in each of these areas today. How about you?

With this extensive list, we hope you get an idea of the direction in which you must steer your thoughts to avoid falling behind others in the quest to make the best of your talents!